You read self-development blogs. You have a good idea of who you are — and especially — who you want to become. The gap between the two is why you are here, you want to elevate yourself from where you are to that next level. Maybe you realize that growing never ends, and you are consistently chasing that growth. Respect to you.
But hold up. To understand where you want to go — that person you want to become — you also need an accurate understand of where you stand today. You think you have this. You have think you know yourself inside-and-out; your strengths, your weaknesses, your past, you have it all figured out.
You don’t. I promise you, you don’t. [Read more...]